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Welcome to the Kentucky Stiles!

The Stiles family has been highly fortunate in its historians both as to excellency of personnel and the quantity of interesting and valuable data, which they collected and preserved for us, recording an unbroken line of descent from the time of our English forefather, Thomas Stiles, of Millbrook, Bedfordshire, England, down to the year 1896. These genealogists, excepting Judge La Fayette Stiles Pence, were not in direct lineage with the Kentucky family of Stiles though springing from the same colonial forefather. All of them, including Judge Pence, have persued the records, diligently and unselfishly, for all branches of the family, though many of them were but remotely connected with their own lineage. But for the love they bore their kindred and their interest in the families meanderings many of us would have long since lost all knowledge of our ancient origin.

 ~by Lewis Ogden Stiles, 1939.

 

The Chosen

We are the chosen. In each family there is one who seems called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live again. To tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve. Doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called, as it were, by our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us: Tell our story. So, we do. In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before now and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors, You have a wonderful family; you would be proud of us. How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love there for me? I cannot say. It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who I am, and why I do the things I do. It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying - I can't let this happen.

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Our Families

Rev. Ezra Stiles
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Ezra Stiles

Born 1727, CT

First Stiles Family Historian

President of Yale University from 1778-1795.

Lela Mae Stiles
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Lela Mae Stiles

Born 1893, KY

Secretery to Franklin D. Roosevelt

Lela's papers are in the F.D.R. Presidential Library in Hyde Park, NY.

Dr. Henry Reed Stiles
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Dr. Henry Reed Stiles

Born 1832, NY

Stiles Family Historian

A founder of the Long Island Historical Society.

Lafayette Stiles Pence
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Lafayette Stiles Pence

Born 1865, KY

Stiles Family Historian

Lois Stiles Sparks
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Lois Ogden Stiles Sparks

Born 1911, KY

Stiles Family Historian

Charles Stiles
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Charles Stiles

Born 1788, NJ

Son of David Stiles

Eunice Kitchell Stiles
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Eunice Stiles

Born 1792, NJ

Daughter of David Stiles

Ogden Willett Stiles
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Ogden Willett Stiles

Born 1823, NJ

Son of Lewis Stiles

Grandson of David Stiles


The Bones of My Bones

The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing something about it. It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish. How they contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family. It goes to deep pride that the fathers fought and some died to make and keep us a nation. It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. It is of equal pride and love that our mothers struggled to give us birth, without them we could not exist, and so we love each one, as far back as we can reach. That we might be born who we are. That we might remember them. So we do.

With Love and Caring

With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are they and they are the sum of who we are. So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family. It is up to that one called in the next generation to answer the call and take my place in the long line of family storytellers. That is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and old to step up and restore the memory or greet those who we had never known before.

"It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. It is of equal pride and love that our mothers struggled to give us birth, without them we could not exist, and so we love each one, as far back as we can reach. That we might be born who we are. That we might remember them. So we do. With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are they and they are the sum of who we are.

So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family. It is up to that one called in the next generation to answer the call and take my place in the long line of family storytellers. That is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and old to step up and restore the memory or greet those who we had never known before."

~by Della M. Cummings Wright; Rewritten by her granddaughter Dell Jo Ann McGinnis Johnson; Edited and Reworded by Tom Dunn, 1943.

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Oh, the places to go and people to see...

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Kentucky

Stiles


David Stiles' homestead.

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Henry Reed Stiles

Historian


Second Stiles Family Historian

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Joanne Perkins

Historian


Joanne's writings

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England

Milbroke


Ancient Stiles Family History

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